Daily Antiwhelm Notes

Daily Antiwhelm #22

Stay Out of It.

Antiwhelm Relationships

ResponsibilityBoundariesFixingOther People’s Problems

Noticing a problem does not make it yours. Let the people in the situation handle the situation.

Daily Antiwhelm #21

Antiwhelm Relationships

BoundariesApprovalLetting GoOther People’s Opinions

You do not have to keep explaining until they approve. If you have said what needed saying, stop typing.

Daily Antiwhelm #16

Antiwhelm Relationships

FixingOther People’s ProblemsBoundaries

A bad day doesn’t need a rescue plan. Sometimes the whole job is listening to what happened on Tuesday.

Daily Antiwhelm #14

Antiwhelm Relationships

Letting GoControlDecisions

Stop chasing it. Go live your life. You can care about the outcome and stop pushing for it.

Daily Antiwhelm #13

Antiwhelm Relationships

BoundariesExpectationsOther People’s Problems

You can decline without presenting evidence. Give the answer kindly and plainly, then let them have their reaction.