Marry us.
We talk. I write a ceremony that sounds like you, help shape the vows if you want, and officiate the part that makes it official.
ANTIWHELM
Your Life Is Not a Project
ANTIWHELM WEDDINGS
Your wedding is not a project.
Go get married.
Personal ceremonies. Digital weddings. Full small-wedding planning. Built to feel like you.Tell me your idea ↓
GET MARRIED. MAKE IT YOURS.
WE’LL HANDLE THE LITTLE STUFF.
THE WHOLE IDEA
Something meaningful does not have to become something exhausting.
No wedding machine. No giant binder. No turning the two of you into an event-production company.
We keep the part that matters, make it personal, and handle the few things people actually need.
I’m Andrea. I’m ordained, I build websites, I make invitations and music, and I live by the beach. I can hold the whole thing without making it feel like one.
THE OFFER
Choose how much help you want.
One part or the whole damn thing.Make it ours.
A custom wedding webpage and invitation with your story, RSVPs, the details people need, and a private place for photos and messages. Afterward, it becomes the keepsake.
Handle the whole thing.
The plan, the digital pieces, the ceremony, vendors, timeline, guest details, setup, backup plan, wedding-day coordination, and clean-down. The whole thing—kept small enough to enjoy.
THE WHOLE WEDDING
Everything it needs. Nothing it doesn’t.
You should not need a hundred-line checklist to understand what you are hiring somebody to handle.Make it official
Marriage-license steps, officiant, ceremony, vows, signing, and witnesses when they are required.
Tell the people
Invitation, wedding webpage, RSVPs, directions, travel details, what to wear, and the plan for afterward.
Make the day work
Location, budget, vendors, timeline, weather backup, guest needs, setup, coordination, and clean-down.
Make it yours
The words, music, photos, flowers, food, and little choices that make it feel like your wedding.
THE INVITATION BECOMES THE PLACE
Before the wedding, it tells people where to be. Afterward, it keeps the story.
Your invitation, ceremony, webpage, vows, and photos can all feel like the same wedding—because they are.
- Your story and the actual details
- Directions, what to wear, and where to go after
- Private guest photos and voice messages
- Your vows and ceremony saved when it is over
YOU TWOARE GETTING
MARRIED.OPEN THE INVITATION →
MARRIED.
RIGHT BY THE WATER
BAREFOOT IS FINE
IF IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU
Add one good thing.
A song that is yours
A custom wedding song made as a keepsake.
Let people say something
A private voice-message guestbook on your wedding page.
A little celebration
Help coordinating a photographer, flowers, or dinner afterward.
Your actual tone
Heartfelt. Funny. Quietly romantic. We’ve done the big wedding before.
HOW THIS WORKS
Three things. That’s enough.
- 01Tell me about the two of you.
One conversation. What feels like you, what absolutely does not, and what people need to know.
- 02I make it yours.
The ceremony, vows, invitation, webpage, and small setup—only the pieces you choose.
- 03Show up and get married.
You two do the meaningful part. We handle the little stuff and leave the beach like we found it.
TELL ME YOUR IDEA
You do not need to have it all figured out.
Tell me the date or season, the place, and how you want it to feel. We’ll start there.Before I confirm a booking, I’ll verify the officiant, marriage-license, witness, location, permit, setup, and commercial-activity requirements that apply to your ceremony. Simple does not mean sloppy.
ANTIWHELM WEDDINGS